Othersidepsychic, Adoption, The Spirit Bond.

You don’t have to be close to a family member or to have known them really well for them to show up unannounced in a reading or for them to be around you.
It happens. Just because you didn’t know them in this lifetime doesn’t mean that you won’t know of them or they are not around you as it was the case yesterday for a friend.
Case in point: A mother makes a decision to put a child up for adoption. Whether due to circumstances beyond their control, whether it is money, family issues, or just the non ability to care of a newborn child, adoption is a great idea when in the long run, both the mother and the child will not benefit from staying together. Sometimes staying with the mother is not in the best interests of the child at that given point in time.
Well, that doesn’t mean that you will never have them around you.
It happened to a friend of mine. There she was.

He searched for her, found her but never really knew her as to what I gathered from our conversation but I could be wrong. With all of the other children she had, she could not care for the new infant with her financial circumstances and the issues she faced so she put him up for adoption. The good news was, he found her and he had pictures of her. He knew his birth mother.

At this given point in time, she showed herself. She was off in the distance watching over him. Not in the poor health she found herself in, in the latter years of her life toward the end but with her hair curled, and looking radiant and healthy and with less weight but still very recognizable to me, a medium. I saw her before he asked me to read him.

Then the question came, who or what or if I saw anything around him, curious as to what I might say. I had only just told him about my gift. He was more of a scientific believer than a spiritual or faith based believer. That’s okay as it is not up to me to question or make him believe. I am only a messenger. He could take the information I gave him and decipher it himself. There was no denying what and whom I saw. A picture proved it. One picture in particular.

Indeed I told him, there was a woman around 70 years of age behind him, but not directly behind him, which indicates she just died, rather, a few feet behind him and off to the right. She stood at a distance but was smiling. To me this indicates a spirit that was in the picture at some point in his life but not directly involved in his life for the long haul…a birth mother. The blond hair, curled as if she just took it out of big rollers and didn’t brush it out. A bottled color. But then again, she was surrounded in golden light and it can cast a hue of gold or blonde to the hair.

Then the pictures came out. I immediately pointed to a child’s photo of her. I knew her instantly. This was the adult woman I was seeing. He had pictures of her from the time she was a baby to the time she passed. I saw some later photos of her and yes, this was the woman standing behind him.

Dont think that once they put us up for adoption and leave us with a different family that they are completely gone from our lives. They are not. They brought us into this world and will see us through it to the next life, even if we didn’t really know them.
Adoption does not separate the spirit bond.

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